Why would a married man with a wife and kids deny them just to cheat?
What drives men to forget their marital vows, their sense of duty and their sense of responsibility, and go after someone else?
This
terrible behavior has been around for so long that every adult must
have seen or heard about someone who risked it all for a taste of
forbidden fun outside matrimony.
In recent weeks, one example which has stood out for all to see is Thin Tall Tony, one of the contestants on the ongoing Big Brother Nigeria Contest.
TTT of Big Brother Nigeria came under fire for lying about his marital status on the show (Pulse)
Like almost everyone on the show, TTT got involved with a housemate of the opposite sex, involving in some steamy activities on live TV.
As
if that was not enough, when he was expressly asked if he was married
or not, he refused to say YES as many expected him to do because, truly,
not only is he married, he also has two kids.
His
has been said to be a special case; and in his defense, he has said
everything he did was all part of a game plan. He probably did all that
to win the competition grand prize of #25million. [Questioning the
validity or otherwise of that excuse is not the reason for this article
though.]
So, away from TTT and his pursuit of
#25million, the biggest reason why married men hide their wedding rings,
deny their wives and kids is just to get sex from other unsuspecting
women - plain and simple.
It all boils down to the selfish need to feel the thrill of sleeping with someone else.
This
need could have been triggered by several reasons. It could have been
caused by intentional or unintentional sexual neglect by their wives,
sexual addiction on their part, or just plain sexual indiscipline.
This was the the subject of conversation on Uwanma Odefa's thoughts on Love, Sex and Everything in Between on March 20 2017.
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